Do you believe in fate/destiny?

DONT WE ALL AT SOME POINT

FATE AND DESTINY

I think that there is a little bit in everyone who feels that at some point in their  lifetime.

Maybe it is that college acceptance, the perfect job at the right time.

Or someone walks into your life, and you feel like you already know them.

A friend for life or a partner.

Fate and destiny may not always show up at the right time, and plans get in the way, maybe your not ready to accept it. At that point in your life.

I do believe in it. But I also believe you have the power in yourself to change anything.

You didn’t get that job, you didn’t pass an exam, and you lose someone too soon.

It just wasn’t your time at that precise moment.

Maybe fate and destiny show up in your life to make you determined to do what you have to do to make it happen.

Fate and destiny alone are just 2 words. Allowing yourself to be open to different possibilities. Now, that is an actionable plan. Where all those wishes and dreams can come true if you believe in it enough.

Destiny and fate can’t be rushed if you want a long term affect.

They say people come into yours life some for a short while to teach you some for a little longer to shape you and test if you’re ready for the lifelong ones who will always be there

Fate and destiny are a feeling deep in your heart. You know, when it’s right, your heart does summersaults it makes you anxious and excited all at the same time.

HAPPY SUNDAY

Much love Faye ❤️

Emo The Emotional Elf .

My approach to budgeting is to simple not buy unnessasary stuff. Great in theory not so great in practice if you have limited budjet after all bills are paid. I don’t want to work hard to not get some small little pleasures in life.

I have really made progress in Paying something’s off. Still have a way to go, but definitely on the right track for a bit more financial stability. in the later part of this year.

I have been keeping an eye to make sure things are paid on time, keeping a regular soft credit check through my bank app.

Funny thing is I would love to get to point where I have back up money in bank for emergencies . and some savings they tend to happen often and leave me playing catch up.

I have managed to cut my food shopping bill a lot without going without.

I shop around for better deals, utilize reward points,

I decided to keep self marketing my book for now as that isn’t an expense I can’t logically or financial take on outside help right now.

We reuse or fix things ourselves rather then replacing wherever possible.

My next step is clearing the last of credit card and not having one. The thing about credit cards is it .They easy to max out not so easy to pay off. At 26.6 APR you kind of get a little stuck in a rut especially if your financial circirmstances change. they only really work to your benefit if you can clear it each month.I guess the biggest change for budjeting is mindset. you have to tell yourself to get your head out of the sand and deal with it.You ignore it, It doesn’t go away it just gets worse.

Changing direct debit dates helps to sometimes a small shift helps you keep on top of things.

Maybe sometimes paying in cash rather then tapping that card is easier to keep on top of things once your purse is empty that’s it with your card you tap and go those little taps add up quickly before you know it you exceeded your budget.

Well that it for now

Have a great time budgeting

Much love Faye

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

Late night blogs, with random thoughts and answers.

I am not scared to do anything or give anything a try,

Do things make me nervous if I do them for the first time , yes, of course.

But I if you dont try, you limit yourself, and you always have that nagging thing telling you it may go wrong. If you look at things logically statistically they may go wrong.

You either have to try it a different way or move on. The more you dwell on things, the more chances you have of being scared to attempt them.

If it does go wrong, there is nothing to say you can’t feel it in the moment. Take as much time as you need to process it.  See if it was something you really wanted in the first place after that sudden erge to do it.

If it is, think it through and look at other ways to overcome the issues , the fears the what it’s. Who do the fears hurt the most Yourself. Maybe others close to you if you dont show what your capable of.

Night all much love Faye

What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

Spending time with family and watching movies.

Reading a book, writing,  learning new skills.

Karaoke I  love a good sing song.

I actually like talking a lot to people as well.

Much love Faye