Kindness it’s Free.Â
Honesty it’s Free
Respect is earned. but it’s a two-way street . Requiring people to be respectful to each other
Many thanks Faye
Emo The Emotional Elf
What colleges have you attended?
That’s easy answer . I didn’t attend college or University.
I was t perticually academic wasn’t because I didn’t try Just it wasn’t ment for me and that was ok.
The day after last day at school I applied for a full time Job at the local Littlewoods store in a the cafe. By the end of week I was working full time.
16 fresh out of school and straight into a job.
Things i think we’re easier for job searching for teens then they are now.
I got 390 a month i gave my parents 150 of that to cover the costs of living there and food. They didn’t ask but always installed in me to pay my own way.
It always felt good to give them that an help out.
The fact is college isn’t the only option evem in these days you got to looks individually at the child. Maybe they are academic and college and uni is the right choice for them as a parent you fully support them. Then you have the child that is good with there hands or has skills that get them an apperenteship earn while you learn. Or some child may want to just go into full time work without the education side of things.
Then you have children that may need more support then others due to disability and your support is very different but the aim is the same to help them do something that makes them feel good about themselves. You have to boost there confidence and find place that can put in support either in work place or going to college giving them the extra time they need to work out what they want to do.
Every option is a good option if it works for the person. After all its thier life we can advise as parents . We can support love future them. But they become adults and it is no longer our choices or wishes for them. Thier life, thier choice thier independence.
Much love Faye
Emo The Emotional Elf
What relationships have a positive impact on you?
I would say family first and foremost.
Then friends, and finally, I think everyone you meet along your lifetime can have a positive impact.
They either accept you as you are or highlight areas you can work on. You can always change negative feedback into a powerful thing . I you watch me kind of empowerment. 😀😀😀
Hope you had a great christmas and holiday season as this year draws to an end, sending positive vibes out there.
Emo the Emotional Elf
Lessons learned
DON’T LET ANYONE TALK DOWN TO YOU.
Standing up for yourself is self-preservation. Not rude.
It doesn’t matter if someone has more experience or more skills its how they talk to people around them.
Not always being avaliable and saying no is ok.
You got to put yourself on the list for self care.
Don’t change yourself to fit someone else’s perspective of you. Be who you are, and the right people stick around.
If you want to learn something new, just do it.
If you want to learn something .You will find time no matter how busy your scedual is.
Mistakes are lessons you need to learn to grow .
For every hard day, they’re is always moments of pure joy if you look in the right place.
