Emo The Emotional Elf

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

Late night blogs, with random thoughts and answers.

I am not scared to do anything or give anything a try,

Do things make me nervous if I do them for the first time , yes, of course.

But I if you dont try, you limit yourself, and you always have that nagging thing telling you it may go wrong. If you look at things logically statistically they may go wrong.

You either have to try it a different way or move on. The more you dwell on things, the more chances you have of being scared to attempt them.

If it does go wrong, there is nothing to say you can’t feel it in the moment. Take as much time as you need to process it.  See if it was something you really wanted in the first place after that sudden erge to do it.

If it is, think it through and look at other ways to overcome the issues , the fears the what it’s. Who do the fears hurt the most Yourself. Maybe others close to you if you dont show what your capable of.

Night all much love Faye

Emo The Emotional Elf

What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

Spending time with family and watching movies.

Reading a book, writing,  learning new skills.

Karaoke I  love a good sing song.

I actually like talking a lot to people as well.

Much love Faye

Emo The Emotional Elf

Think back on your most memorable road trip.

While visiting mum at hospitals over the last few years of her life . Seeing the scenery as we drove to visit was one of the more pleasant sides of the journey. Had a calming effect.

From driving past Stonehenge. To seeing the wide open space of country side.

Hot air balloons 🎈  landing fields.

The sky in alls it’s glory at different times of the day. Sometimes after visiting we would see some of the local sites I would take photo’s so next time I visited i could share them with mum, so she had something other than hospital wards to look at. It made her more determined to get out of there and home as soon as

possible.

Sometimes after her long stays in hospital we would bring her home to our town so we could support her more till she was able to mobilise enough to go home safely.

We get to spend more precious moments with her and make memories with the children.

The worse time was after my mums first hip op she stayed for a while we got her walking maybe only ver short distance but enough to be able to go home to her own home.

We was about half way home of a three hour journey and we got a call to say she had another full and broken her other hip. That’s was one of the most sad days.

Did we take her home to soon, could it have been prevented, or was it beyond our control. But really it was a case of her disability equipment catching the edge of the sofa and the walking frame tipped over and  she fell. Its very different being in an open house with clear space to move around with equipment to a smaller home .

Sometimes your always left with the what it’s.

Much  love Faye