Emo the Emotional Elf #author #emotions #anxiety #mentalhealt

Hi all how are you? it has been a busy few days here.

Planning for exams and wedding.

We did it all with style and ease it is all in preplanning and preparing, when I say it was easy it truly was, 1or 2 minor things like Niki forgetting her college badge on exam day so I rushed home to get it but in that time it took me to get home she had already spoken to someone there and they sorted her out with some college Id.

We were up early so not only to get her alert and ready for exam we also took her mind off it with hair and nails done ready for wedding after, was a great distraction, she came out feeling positive and happy with how it went.

I got to wear my first posh hat,

This is my beautiful family ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’—

Planning for attending weddings

A few thing always to remember spare flat shoes, plasters incase of blisters these I put on before shoes to avoid getting them, Food Jake will eat.

Definatley phone chargers and some Tec a must for kids to self calm at events if it is to much, that way we could enjoy it too.

Wet wipes someone will need some.

Pain meds were not needed but there just incase.

Jake and Niki coped so very well yesterday it was such a lovely wedding , stunning place, the attention to detail well that was just so perfect.

What it felt like to be there was like home it was the welcoming inviroment that everyone attending made you feel the stunning bride ,bridesmaids and mother’s. The proud father’s and family members.

Presence is giving freely with joy and pride, that was a non replaceable thing, sharing in important moments of Thier journey such a pleasure and honour.

Having my hubby and kids with me the most rewarding thing ever.

I have learnt to appreciate the tiny details, the home made touches, the love and kindness the world has to offer our family,

The shear feeling of contentment you feel being with the very important people in your life.

Having our Josh with us too

Here he is our oldest.

There was that funny moment when you have been there a while and it is just before you get started with the event and you walk through the door as someone else walks in wearing the same dress, she looked stunning in it too โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜€ we did sit and chat and laugh about it together.

My dad phoned before telling us a sink whole had opened on the motor way where we were going but thankfully we got there with plenty of time to spare, via a different route was a bit quicker then expected.

We had more of an issue with travel on the way home due to road closures but it again wasn’t to long before we got back on the motor way.

Roads always look different in the night you can’t look for land marks you pasted on the way.

My Dad still has a bad leg, and my mum still in hospital, recovery is a little slow as it is hindered by the out break of Nora virus . The wards something she really could of done without, wards on lock down no visitors really hard for people to be away from loved ones.

Which means what tests she would of have for what she was admitted for now have to wait till ward is clear and open. Again she really wants to go home but can’t at the moment. They have adjusted her meds a bit so hopefully this will help.

Hayley was with us today as I was working I took her out to do father’s Day shopping and lunch was great Josh came with us as well.

Any way tired now so going to go have a beautiful night. โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜€